Thereās something incredibly freeing about waking up and realizing you owe no one a single dollar. But let me tell you, my journey to becoming debt-free before 30 wasnāt easy. I was once buried under credit card balances, student loans, and even a car loan. Every time I checked my bank account, I felt this heavy knot in my stomach ā like Iād never get out of this cycle.
But one day, I decided enough was enough. I wanted my life back. And slowly, step by step, I built a plan that helped me not only clear my debt but also gain control over my finances ā without feeling like I had to give up everything I loved.
If youāre tired of living paycheck to paycheck or feeling like your debt is stealing your joy, hereās exactly what I did.
The hardest part was facing the numbers. I sat down with a notebook, logged into every account, and wrote down the total I owed ā credit cards, loans, everything. It was terrifying to see it all on paper, but knowing the real number gave me power.
I realized I couldnāt fix what I wasnāt willing to confront. That list became the foundation of my plan.
One of my biggest mistakes was not tracking my spending. Iād swipe my card without thinking, only to panic when my statement came in. So I started using a simple method ā every time I spent money, I wrote it down.
This one habit was life-changing. It made me realize where my money was leaking ā like $100 a month on random snacks or buying ācuteā home dĆ©cor I didnāt need. Cutting these out felt like an instant raise.
Instead of following complicated spreadsheets, I simplified everything. I asked myself:
What are my true essentials?
What can I live without for a while?
I cut down takeout, paused subscriptions I barely used, and shopped my closet instead of buying new clothes. This budget wasnāt forever ā it was just my ādebt payoff season.ā And knowing it was temporary made it easier to stick to.
I didnāt have time for a second full-time job, but I knew I could earn extra without killing myself. So I started selling things I no longer used ā clothes, furniture, even old electronics. I also took on small freelance gigs I could do in my free time.
In just a few months, I had made an extra $1,000 that went straight to debt. It was the boost I needed.
I learned quickly that paying the minimum would keep me in debt forever thanks to interest. Even an extra $20ā$50 each month made a difference. I used the snowball method ā tackling my smallest balance first.
Every time I paid off a card, I rolled that payment into the next one. Watching those balances disappear gave me the motivation to keep going.
Instead of seeing debt payoff as punishment, I made it a challenge. I created a ādebt trackerā on my wall where I colored a box every time I paid $100. Seeing that progress was addictive ā I wanted to color more boxes every month.
Weekends used to be my downfall ā brunches, Target runs, random Amazon orders. I started giving myself a small cash allowance for weekends and left my cards at home.
When the cash was gone, I was done spending. It saved me hundreds of dollars every month without feeling like I was sacrificing fun.
Looking at a huge debt number like $10,000 or $20,000 can be overwhelming. So instead of focusing on the big number, I broke it into smaller milestones. For example, Iād say:
āThis month, Iāll pay $500.ā
āI just need to get this card down to $1,000.ā
Each small win gave me a sense of accomplishment. It felt less like climbing a mountain and more like taking manageable steps.
Every time I crossed a milestone, I celebrated ā but in a way that didnāt cost money. Iād treat myself to a homemade movie night, bake something fun, or go for a scenic walk with my favorite coffee.
These small celebrations kept me excited about the journey. Debt payoff shouldnāt feel like punishment ā you deserve to enjoy the process.
There were moments when I felt frustrated, like I was missing out on vacations or fancy dinners. But I learned to shift my mindset by writing down 3 things I was grateful for every day.
Things like:
Iām thankful I can still enjoy a cozy night at home.
Iām thankful for the debt Iām paying off because itās teaching me discipline.
Iām thankful for the progress Iāve already made.
This little mindset shift stopped me from feeling resentful and kept me focused on the bigger picture.
Food was a big area where I was overspending without realizing it. Iād grab takeout or do expensive grocery runs without planning. So I started meal prepping every Sunday.
Not only did this save me over $200 a month, but it also made my life easier because I wasnāt constantly asking myself, āWhatās for dinner?ā Small savings like this went directly toward extra debt payments.
Once every few months, Iād do a week-long āno-spend challengeā where I avoided all unnecessary purchases. No takeout, no impulse shopping, nothing.
Instead, Iād get creative ā cooking with what I already had, doing free activities, and using what was lying around the house. These challenges easily saved me an extra $100ā$200 that went straight to my snowball payments.
When I realized how much I made by selling unused things in the first few months, I made it a habit. Every month, Iād look around my home and ask, āHave I used this in the past 6 months?ā If not, I sold it.
This trick helped me clear space at home while earning hundreds more dollars for debt payments.
There were times Iād scroll through social media and feel like everyone else was living a perfect life ā vacations, shopping sprees, luxury items. But I reminded myself that being debt-free is the real flex.
Instead of comparing, I focused on my own goals and celebrated how far Iād come.
Whenever I felt tempted to splurge, Iād close my eyes and imagine my life after debt:
No late-night anxiety about money.
Freedom to travel without guilt.
A savings account that actually grows.
This mental image of future freedom made saying ānoā to small purchases so much easier.
While I was paying off debt, I also set up an automatic transfer of $20/week into a separate savings account. It wasnāt much, but it gave me a safety net for emergencies ā so I didnāt fall back into using credit cards whenever life got tough.
Instead of scrolling through shopping hauls on social media, I followed finance bloggers, debt-free journeys, and motivational podcasts. Seeing other women crush their financial goals gave me energy to keep going, even on rough days.
Hereās the truth ā going too extreme can make you give up. So, I gave myself a tiny āfun budgetā (like $30/month). If I wanted a coffee date or a small treat, I could enjoy it without guilt.
This kept me sane and made my budget actually sustainable.
The day I made that final payment on my smallest credit card was life-changing. It gave me confidence that I can do this. From there, it was like a snowball rolling downhill ā faster and faster each month.
The truth is, paying off debt isnāt always exciting. Some months felt slow. But I reminded myself:
āDebt-free me will thank the present me for not giving up.ā
Consistency was my secret weapon. Itās not about big leaps ā itās about the small steps you take over and over that get you there.
Becoming debt-free before 30 wasnāt about luck or a huge paycheck. It was about being intentional with every dollar, finding joy in the little wins, and staying patient. If I can do it ā someone who once felt like they were drowning in bills ā you can too.
Start small. Celebrate progress. And remember, every step forward is one step closer to freedom.
