You know whatâs scary? Debt.
You know whatâs even scarier? Not having a budget while drowning in it.
I used to believe that creating a budget was the âresponsible adultâ thing to do. But every time I tried, Iâd fail. Iâd write down unrealistic numbers, restrict myself too much, and end up swiping my card for an online shopping spree just to feel better.
It wasnât working. So, I threw the traditional budget out the window and found a way to pay off debt without one. And guess what? It worked better than I could have imagined.
When youâre already stressed about debt, the last thing you need is a complicated spreadsheet or an app that makes you feel like youâre doing calculus. So, I simplified.
Instead of creating a âperfectâ budget, I started tracking one thing: my cash flow. I just asked myself every week:
How much is coming in?
How much is going out?
Can I move at least a small amount toward my debt right now?
This stripped-down approach gave me a sense of control without all the overwhelming details.
I realized that if I waited until the end of the month to pay off my debt, there was never any money left. So I flipped the script.
The moment I got paid, I immediately sent a fixed chunk (even if it was just $50) toward my debt. Treating it like a non-negotiable bill was a game changer. I didnât wait for âextraâ money to appearâI made debt payoff a priority.
Instead of a strict budget, I divided my money into three simple categories:
Must-Pay Bills: Rent, utilities, groceries, etc.
Debt Payments: A fixed amount I promised to pay every month.
Fun Money: Whatever was left over for coffee dates, takeout, or little treats.
This system was simple enough for me to stick to, and I didnât feel deprived. I could still say âyesâ to the occasional Starbucks latte without spiraling into guilt.
Trying to pay off multiple debts at once is exhausting. So, I picked the one debt that annoyed me the mostâthe one that made me roll my eyes every time I saw the balanceâand I went after it with everything I had.
Every extra dollar I found (from skipping takeout or selling something I didnât need) went straight toward that single debt. Watching the balance drop gave me the motivation to keep going.
You donât need a strict budget to find extra money. You just need to get creative! I started doing small things like:
Cooking at home three nights a week instead of eating out.
Selling old clothes I hadnât worn in years.
Using cashback apps for everyday shopping.
Choosing free activities (picnics, hikes, movie nights at home) over expensive outings.
It was crazy how these little changes added up to $100⌠then $200⌠then $500 extra each month that I could throw at my debt.
The biggest lesson I learned? Starting is better than waiting.
For years, I told myself Iâd pay off debt once I had a perfect budget, a bigger salary, or fewer bills. But that âperfect timeâ never came.
So, I just startedâwith what I had, where I was. That single decision made all the difference.
One of the smartest things I did was set up automatic payments for my debt. It sounds simple, but trust me, this trick is life-changing. When money automatically leaves your account for debt, you canât spend it elsewhere.
I treated these payments like rent or a utility billânon-negotiable. Even if I could only afford a small amount, I set it up to happen every month. Watching the balance drop without me having to âthink about itâ gave me a sense of progress and control.
There were months when I couldnât make a big debt payment, and in the past, that wouldâve made me give up. But I started celebrating every single dollar I put toward my debt.
Even a $10 extra payment counts. Thatâs $10 less interest, $10 closer to freedom. This mindset shift kept me from falling into the trap of thinking I had to pay off everything in giant chunks.
We all get surprise money once in a whileâtax refunds, bonuses, birthday gifts. In the past, Iâd blow that money on impulse purchases. But during my debt payoff journey, I made a new rule: 50% of any extra cash goes straight to debt.
The other 50%? I allowed myself to use for small joys. This balance helped me avoid burnout while making big dents in my balances.
Even without a budget, I found ways to save little by little. I used the round-up trickâwhere every time I spent, I rounded up to the nearest dollar and saved the change.
I also started putting small âchallengesâ in place, like a $5 jar. Every time I wanted to buy something unnecessary (like a random snack or decor item), Iâd drop $5 into that jar instead. Within weeks, I had extra cash I could send to debt!
Hereâs something no one tells you about debt: itâs rarely just about money. For me, overspending was linked to stress and wanting to âkeep upâ with others.
I started asking myself: âWhy am I about to spend this?â
Am I bored?
Am I stressed?
Am I trying to impress someone?
Learning to pause before purchases not only saved me money but also helped me break emotional spending habits.
You might think paying off debt means putting every penny into it, but I learned the hard way that without a small emergency fund, Iâd just end up swiping my credit card again.
I saved $500 first. Just having that cushion gave me peace of mind and kept me from spiraling back into debt when unexpected expenses popped up.
Scrolling through social media and seeing people pay off $50,000 in six months used to make me feel like a failure. But then I realized: their story isnât mine.
I focused on my own lane. Even if I could only pay off a small amount each month, it was still better than doing nothing. And over time, those small steps added up to something incredible.
Yes, fun! I know it sounds impossible, but I started turning it into a game. Iâd challenge myself to have âno-spend weekends,â see how many free date nights I could plan, or find creative ways to make extra cash (like selling an old handbag or doing quick side gigs).
Every time I hit a small milestone, Iâd write it on a sticky note and put it on my mirror. Seeing that growing list of wins was addictiveâand motivating!
When youâre tackling debt without a budget, your âwhyâ is your compass.
For me, it was simple: I wanted freedom. Freedom to travel, to save for a home, to live without constant anxiety over bills.
Every time I felt tempted to give up, Iâd close my eyes and picture that future version of meâsmiling, stress-free, and debt-free. That image gave me the strength to keep going.
I used to think Iâd only be happy when I was completely debt-free. But this journey taught me something powerful: every step forward deserves celebration.
The fact that I was facing my money issues, staying mindful, and refusing to give up was already a huge win. That confidence I built along the way? Itâs worth just as much as the financial freedom I was chasing.
If youâre staring at your debt right now and thinking, âI donât even have a budget, I canât do this,â let me tell you something: You absolutely can.
You donât need perfection. You donât need to be a financial expert. You just need to startâwith one small action, one payment, one habit at a time. Trust me, those tiny steps will snowball into something life-changing.
