Most of us are just one âcute Target aisleâ away from spending money we never planned to spend. I used to be that personâthe one who walked into a store for toothpaste and walked out with candles, three snacks, and a new throw blanket. And online shopping? Donât even get me started. Those âBuy Nowâ buttons were my weakness.
But everything changed the day I discovered the magic of pre-planned purchases. This simple shift not only stopped my impulse buying but also saved me hundreds of dollars every month. And hereâs the best partâit doesnât feel restrictive at all. In fact, it feels like freedom.
When you pre-plan your spending, youâre basically telling your money where to goâbefore your emotions take over. Instead of shopping on a whim, you decide ahead of time:
What youâll buy.
When youâll buy it.
How much youâre willing to spend.
This means no more guilt after shopping sprees. No more wondering, âWhere did my paycheck go?â Youâre in control, and trust me, that feeling is empowering.
Whenever I see something I wantâwhether itâs a cute sweater on sale or a new kitchen gadgetâI donât buy it right away. I park it on a 30-day wish list.
I ask myself:
Do I still want this after a week?
Is it something I truly need or just a âboredom buyâ?
Most of the time, I forget about it within daysâand thatâs a sign I never really needed it. This little trick alone has saved me hundreds!
Instead of shopping randomly, I pick two days a month where I allow myself to buy the things Iâve planned for. It could be the first Saturday or mid-month, but the rule is simpleâno impulse buys in between.
This not only gives me something to look forward to but also helps me see whatâs actually worth my money. Spoiler: 60% of the stuff I thought I âneededâ doesnât make it to the buy list by the time my buy day comes.
If I need something bigger (like furniture or electronics), I create a mini savings plan for it. Instead of swiping my card and worrying later, I plan out how much Iâll save each week for that item.
When I finally make the purchase, it feels so good because I know Iâm buying it guilt-free.
I realized that most of my impulse buys were just trying to give me a quick âhappy boost.â Now, instead of buying something on a whim, I replace that urge with small joys that cost nothing:
A quick coffee with a friend.
Lighting a candle and reading my favorite book.
Taking a walk and treating myself to fresh air instead of a shopping cart.
The joy is longer-lastingâand I donât end up with random clutter.
This part is important! When I do buy something (after planning for it), I celebrate it. I remind myself that Iâm buying with intention, not out of stress or boredom. This creates a positive relationship with money, which makes saving even easier.
⨠Hereâs the thing: Pre-planned purchases arenât about saying ânoâ to everything. Theyâre about saying âyesâ to the things that truly matter. Once I started this, I didnât just save moneyâI felt less stressed, more organized, and more confident about where my money was going.
If the pervious part gave you the foundation of why pre-planned purchases are life-changing, this part will show you how to turn it into a lifestyle. This is where saving money stops feeling like a chore and starts feeling like a superpower. By the end of this, youâll not only know how to shop smarter, but youâll also feel empowered, guilt-free, and even excited about the way you spend your money.
Think of this as a simple map for your money. Instead of wandering into stores or scrolling through online shops aimlessly, you decide in advance where your money will go.
Hereâs what I do every month:
I list all my âmust-buyâ items (groceries, essentials).
I set aside a small chunk for my âwantâ listâthings like a new candle, skincare products, or a cute sweater.
I assign a day on which Iâll buy those wants (usually mid-month so I can evaluate if I really need them).
By creating this blueprint, Iâm no longer making emotional purchases because Iâve already planned and budgeted for joy.
Hereâs a hard truthâmost impulse buys are just products we know nothing about. Now, I donât buy anything without researching:
Is this item worth the price?
Are there better alternatives or sales coming up?
Would waiting 7-14 days make me feel differently about buying it?
Sometimes, by the time Iâm done researching, I either find a cheaper option or realize I didnât need the item in the first place. The money I save with this trick easily adds up to $100 or more each month!
I used to dread budgeting, but now I make it fun. On the first Sunday of every month, I have my âMoney Dateâ with myself:
I make a hot cup of tea.
Light a cozy candle.
Go through my wish list and highlight 1-2 things I really want to purchase that month.
This feels less like budgeting and more like treating myself with care. Iâm not depriving myself; Iâm making sure my money is spent on things that truly matter to me.
Did you know most people spend extra because they buy seasonal stuff at the wrong time? For example:
Buying winter coats in October instead of grabbing them in March during end-of-season sales.
Purchasing holiday dĂŠcor in November when prices are highest, instead of waiting for post-holiday clearance sales.
With pre-planning, I note seasonal needs months ahead. This way, I grab the best deals and never feel that end-of-season regret.
Sales used to be my weakness. Iâd see 50% off and feel like I was saving, but in reality, I was spending on things I didnât even need. Now, I only buy things on sale if theyâre already on my wish list.
This single mindset shift saved me hundreds of dollars last yearâbecause a $20 item you donât need is still wasted money, even if itâs on sale!
Pre-planned purchases have taught me to value quality over quick, cheap fixes. For example, instead of buying five fast-fashion tops that fall apart in months, I save and invest in one versatile piece that lasts years. This saves money in the long run and also makes me feel good about what I own.
Hereâs the fun partâyou should celebrate when you stick to your pre-planned purchases. For every month I stay on track, I treat myself to something small but meaningfulâa fancy coffee, a new book, or a self-care day. Itâs not about restriction, itâs about mindful spending that actually brings joy.
The real magic of pre-planning isnât just financialâitâs emotional. I used to feel stressed and guilty after shopping sprees, but now, every purchase I make feels intentional. I know where my money is going, and I feel proud instead of anxious.
When you shop with intention, youâre not just buying itemsâyouâre buying peace of mind.
For the next 30 days, try this:
Keep a running wish list of everything you want to buy.
Wait at least 7 days before buying anything.
Pick 1 or 2 items you truly love and purchase them guilt-free.
Youâll be shocked at how much money you saveâand how much happier you feel about the purchases you do make.
Pre-planned purchases are about shifting from chaotic spending to conscious spending. Itâs about loving what you buy, saving for what matters, and saying goodbye to that post-shopping guilt. And trust me, once you start, thereâs no going back.
