There was a time I thought budgeting meant constantly hustling, tracking every penny, and depriving myself of anything remotely fun.
But I learned something powerful:
Your budget doesnāt thrive on what you earnā
It thrives on what you keep.
And keeping more started with a simple but honest look at what I was spending on that didnāt actually serve me.
Letās talk about the 5 things I stopped buying that made a real difference in my budgetāand surprisingly, in my peace too. š

You know the drill:
You walk into Target or Boots for shampooā¦
And somehow leave with a new serum, a trending lip gloss, and a random face roller you saw once on TikTok.
I used to buy so many beauty items I didnāt actually needājust because they were on sale, āclean,ā or promised a glow-up.
Now?
I have one moisturizer I love, one foundation that works, and a single favorite lipstick that makes me feel pretty. Thatās it.
š” Simplifying your beauty routine saves money, time, and mental clutter.
Listen, Iām a tired woman. Most days, dinner feels like a lot.
But those Ā£15/$20 āeasy mealsā add up fast.
Iām not saying never enjoy takeoutājust donāt make it your default.
What helped me:
Meal prepping 2ā3 freezer-friendly dinners per week
Keeping a list of āzero-effortā meals like breakfast-for-dinner, quesadillas, or air fryer magic
Having pre-cut veggies and ready-to-go pasta sauce on hand
š Now, eating out feels like a treat againānot a rescue mission.
This one stung to admit.
I used to overspend on giftsānot because I wanted toābut because I felt like I had to.
Whether it was a last-minute birthday or a holiday panic-buy, Iād spend more than I could afford just to avoid seeming ācheap.ā
But hereās the truth:
A thoughtful gift means more than an expensive one.
Now I plan ahead:
I keep a small āgift binā of affordable, meaningful items bought on sale
I bake, craft, or write notes when budgets are tight
I stopped apologizing for not going ābigā
š The love behind the gift is what matters mostānot the receipt.
Every time I opened Pinterest or Instagram, I felt like my home wasnāt āaestheticā enough.
So Iād end up buying throw pillows, mugs with cute fonts, or Ā£20 candles that burned in 3 nights.
It felt good⦠for a second. Then the clutter set ināand the credit card balance followed.
Now I ask:
Will this actually make my life easier/more peaceful?
Do I have space for it?
Am I buying this for my joyāor for someone elseās feed?
šÆļø Minimal but meaningful pieces have brought more warmth to my home than a thousand dollar-store hauls ever could.
Netflix, Spotify, Amazon Prime, Canva, meditation apps, photo editing tools⦠it all added up.
And most of the time, I wasnāt even using them.
So I did a subscription detox. I went through my bank statements, canceled everything I didnāt actively use, and chose just 1ā2 to keep.
I even asked myself:
š āIf I had to pay cash for this each month, would I?ā
If not, it got the chop.
Result? I saved over $65/month. Thatās $780 a yearāwithout changing a single thing about my lifestyle.
Once I stopped buying what didnāt truly serve me, something incredible happened:
I had margin.
Hereās how I used the extra money:
Built a mini emergency fund (my first $500 felt like a million!)
Paid off a lingering credit card balance
Started a āfun fundā for things that actually brought joy (like a day trip with my daughter)
Saved up for a cozy reading chair Iād wanted for over a year ššŖ
š¬ āWhen your money finally aligns with your values, every dollar feels powerful.ā
Cutting back isnāt always easyābut what surprised me most was the emotional relief that came with it.
Hereās what changed:
š§ Less decision fatigue: Fewer choices = more mental clarity
š³ Less guilt: I wasnāt regretting purchases the next day
š§āāļø More confidence: I felt in control of my money, not the other way around
And most importantly? I stopped chasing things I didnāt need to feel worthy.
Thatās the real win.
You donāt need to stop buying everything.
This isnāt about punishmentāitās about power.
Try this:
Write down every purchase, even the $3 coffee or that Ā£9 planner you didnāt really need.
Youāll start to see your patterns. Awareness is key.
Pick a few things you can pause for now.
Not forever. Just for 30 days. See how it feels.
Donāt just let the money sit. Use it to:
Boost your savings
Pay down debt
Or add to a wishlist goal (a massage, a family day out, etc.)
šÆ The point is to give your money a mission that serves your future.
I created a super simple āWhat Iām Not Buyingā Notion tracker to help you:
Log items you say no to
Track savings weekly
Reflect on how you feel about the change
Youād be amazed how motivating it is to visually see your growth.
š„ DM me for the free downloadābecause your budget deserves support, and you deserve to feel proud of every step.
None of this is about being cheap.
Itās about being intentional.
Every item you stop buying is space you createāfor peace, savings, and the life you actually want.
And hereās the truth that changed everything for me:
š¬ āEvery dollar I donāt spend is a dollar I can use to build freedom.ā
so as we stripped away the noiseāthose extra purchases that silently drain your account.
Now itās time to talk about what I gained by letting go⦠and how you can turn those small sacrifices into big wins for your life and budget.
We live in a world that tells women weāre only enough when weāre buying, upgrading, and consuming.
But you? Youāre doing something radical.
Youāre choosing peace over pressure.
Youāre choosing clarity over chaos.
Youāre choosing a future that feels like you.
And that? Thatās beautiful budgeting. š
P.S. If this article made you feel seenāsave it, share it, or print it for your fridge.
And remember: you donāt need more stuff to feel like more. You already are.
